You are in a new relationship and the excitement is real. They make you laugh, smile from ear to ear, engage in conversations about almost anything. The touches are unlike anything you have experienced in years and you simply enjoy each other’s company. You are on cloud nine and feeling amazing about this new person […]

Think your relationship is on the brink, but unsure? Here are just 7 signs (and in no particular order) that your relationship is falling apart and what you might want to do to put a spark back into it. 1. There’s A Total Lack Of Affection The honeymoon stage of the relationship is over, but […]

Does an affair have to mean the end of your relationship? Your first thought might be ‘of course’! He or she cheated on me and I could not imagine being with them again. They betrayed me, they snuck behind my back and had sex with another person while we were married! They were my life, […]

It’s bedtime again at the “Lane’s place” and once again each partner goes to their respective sides of the bed, turns toward the wall and starts reading. Not saying a word, not sharing a touch, not even acknowledging that either is right next to each other. Each on its own schedule, they eventually shut their […]

Ever think, “wow, those two are so in love, they must have the perfect marriage!” Not to burst the bubble, but sometimes what you see in public is not really what is happening privately inside the home. I tell you this not to think negatively of all couples you see that seem to be enjoying […]

You have probably been there. You and your partner have decided something has to change in your relationship. It has been this way far too long and you or maybe even both of you, are not happy.  You need help NOW! So what type of Counselor should we hire and what do all those letters […]

You had an amazing time dating, then got engaged and was so looking forward to a great future with your spouse.  Then, as time passed after walking down the aisle, you realized that this marriage has changed.  You know longer spend quality time together.  One goes one way, the other the other way.  You live […]

Let’s also be honest with the fact arguments are part of relationships, particularly when love is involved. However, I think some couples, at least ones that I have seen at the Trinity Relationship Center truly do not want to engage in any argument at all in their relationship. Let’s be honest here, an argument is […]

Thinking about having an affair? You might want to think again. Not only will it take an emotional toll, impact your trust, family, friendships and career, it could also cost you a lot financially. One survey suggests that an average affair lasts 6 months and costs $444 a month. That is $2,664 total. So, let’s take a real […]

Going to therapy is not something to take lightly. From experience, I know meeting a Therapist for the first time can be awkward. You sit down with them and are expected to automatically begin talking and sharing all of your problems. Choosing the right Therapist is an important decision. Do you have the right one […]